Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Book Review: The Childhood of Jesus by J. M. Coetzee

We all live like strangers in a strange land, trying to cobble together a sense of family and belonging, in the world of Coetzee's latest novel.

A man leaving his homeland for a new life takes on an abandoned boy - let's call him David, as his real name is lost - in order to help him locate his mother, or, rather, a mother.  He finds a candidate almost randomly and proposes the new family to her:

     "Let me be more precise," he says, speaking softly and rapidly.  "The boy has no mother.  Ever since we got off the boat we have been searching for her.  Will you consider taking him?"
     "Taking him?"
     "Yes, being a mother to him.  Being his mother.  Will you take him as your son?"
     "I don't understand.  In fact I understand nothing at all.  Are you suggesting that I adopt your boy?"
     "Not adopt.  Be his mother, his full mother.  We have only one mother, each of us.  Will you be that one and only mother to him?"

No wonder the man and boy read a children's version of Don Quixote together, the original modern novel, one where identity and belonging are confabulated with fantasy and misperception.  Coetzee's novel leaves you wondering if your concepts of self and your understanding of your role in your family and society are what you imagine, or perhaps we are, a bit like the knight-errant, suffering from flattering delusions.  In this work, as in life, there is neither a happy nor sad ending, nor an ending at all, just the steady onward sweep of days and hopes and searching.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Not Another Dilbert Meeting

How many Dilbert meetings have you sat through?  Or, even better, trainings?  You know, the ones that make you want to ask someone to pull on your tie until you stop breathing?

A student yesterday was freaking out because he could not take another minute of being forced to suffer through an endless meeting of sorts.  I was called upon to calm him.  And send him back to continue suffering.

But I really sympathized with him.  I hate that.  When people value you so little that they'll waste a slice of your life boring you senseless.  Or just be so lazy or clueless or whatever that they don't realize how useless and dull their endless droning is.

Tonight, on the other hand, I went to a meeting at church.  Just three of us, assembled for a specific purpose.  We accomplished what we came together for without wasting time, but without hurrying either. We joked a bit, considered several options on each question, assigned tasks, and said good night.

One way to escape Dilbert meetings is to go to the bathroom.  For a long time.  Heh-heh.